I'm 55 and I just Made Love for the First Time
Nov 03, 2019
My husband Mark and I have been married almost 5 years. Yet, we just made love for the first time!
We have been sexually intimate before. But, I was never fully present until today.
As Mark and I were about to make love this morning, I felt a twinge deep inside. My irritation meter was going off!
When I get irritated, it's always because of unresolved hurt from the past. So we put on our healing hats and did some digging together.
I realized I still had anger and irritation from agreements we had earlier in our relationship when we were intimate together with other women.
I had been taught by my mother that I had to keep my man sexually satisfied, no matter what!
I also thought I needed to be "Enlightened" about polyamory and open relationships.
For me at the time, however, I was really content with just snuggling with these women. Mark, however, wanted to hit a home run every...
Gratitude in Relationships
Oct 28, 2019
Gratitudes can cause an immediate shift from low energetic states like sadness or hurt to greater happiness and joy.
That's why we designed Week 1 of The Soulmate Kit to start with gratitude practices.
We have much experience from being in relationships that did not work. From these, we learned what does work.
In the past, I experienced relationships with people who had similar patterns to my family's dynamics.
After many years of listening to my complaining about my relationships, a friend asked me "What is the common denominator in your miserable relationships?"
Shift!--I was the common denominator. No matter who I am with, I am the one pointing the finger! I'm playing the "blame game".
So how do you get out of playing the "blame game"? Use Gratitude.
Let's look at some examples:
Blame Game: If not for you, I would have my dream home.
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The Burden of Beauty
Oct 27, 2019
Do you see yourself as beautiful? Wonder where your ideas about beauty come from?
A NY Times article below demonstrates how easily we have been programmed by the media. It used to be that in Fiji ''You've gained weight'' was a traditional compliment. Eating disorders were not common. 3 years after American TV was introduced in 1995, almost 30% of teen girls thought they were fat and eating disorders were up to 15%.
According to Psychology Today, Fifty-six percent of women say they are dissatisfied with their overall appearance especially with their bellies (71 percent).
How do you get to peace with and even love your body, no matter what your weight, shape or appearance? That's where week 3 of the Soulmate Kit (TheSoulmateKit.com) comes in.
You'll tackle Appearance, Fat, Food and Pain.
You will learn to see your body through the lens of Self-Love and release the voices of self-criticism.
You will lavish your body with praise, gratitude and acknowledgements.
See the NY Times...
Energy Flow
Oct 23, 2019
I asked for topics and you answered.
You want to know about Energy Flow
The particular energy we are talking about is Spiritual Energy.
This energy is considered a universal life force or spiritual source energy that exists in all living matter.
It's considered the life force that binds the soul to the body. In this concept, the soul is itself everlasting. There are many religions that define spiritual energy and teach how to receive it.
Energy Flow is not visible to our 3 dimensional eyes. It can’t be measured in a laboratory. You can’t buy it at the mall. You can’t find it in Religion, although Religion may point to it. You can’t find it in books. I can’t give you the formula for Energy Flow.
What I can do is point to how it feels when you are in FLOW.
The Yogi’s say it’s found in Prana, our breath.
The Native Indians point to Mother Earth...
Keep your Furry Friends Alive!
Oct 19, 2019
Auggie is pure love.
He has soft eyes, a gentle Spirit. Auggie knows pain after being brutally abused for many years, yet he never lost hope. Auggie is a great comforter to children. He is a lover of nature. Auggie has seen tough times. He has been beaten down.
Auggie never loses heart. He listens to the trees, feels the sun on his face. He dreams of being rescued.
A little girl comes to Auggie looks into his eyes. She feels his pain as her very own. She tells her Dad, “We have to take Auggie home with us. He is tied to the tree in the backyard and his tail is broken, he needs us.”
Auggie is a gorgeous german shepherd. Little Netta takes Auggie off the chain and places him gently in the car. When we get home Auggie, I will bathe you, feed you and give you a warm soft place to sleep.
She promises Auggie, “You will never be...
From Suicide to Thrive
Oct 16, 2019
I was 22 years old and newly married to Rambo ( he loved watching Rambo movies so, he is Rambo for this story). I wanted to get out of my parents home and I yearned to start my own family. I believed in fairy tales, I wanted my very own Prince! We married after knowing each other a couple of months, but marriage was not what I thought!
Rambo was at work all the time and when he came home, he went straight to the T.V. with no conversation. I fell into depression. I new nothing about how to be in relationship.
One stormy day, I was sitting on the toilet lid with the door closed. Rambo was gone at work. I was so depressed, I felt trapped in a marriage I wanted out of! All I could think of was ending my life. As I took out a razor and held it to wrist I was shaking. I could not do it. I saw no other way out. I did not want to go back home to Mom and Dad.
Somehow I had to find...
Authentic Lovemaking
Oct 15, 2019
Is your lovemaking authentic?
- Are you revealing all of YOU?
- Do you feel deeply passionate and juicy?
- Are you holding some of you back? Do you know what?
This topic of authentic lovemaking came up when I realized I was not that interested in lovemaking anymore.
I discovered two things running in my subconscious that were getting in the way of authentic lovemaking.
The first was I still felt crushed by Don Juan, my former, Latin lover. I was still grieving the loss of that passionate relationship, where ultimately, I felt betrayed by passion.
According to Ramtha, we don’t have a life purpose for being here. We are all Creators. We choose our life according to whatever we desire. Nothing that we desire is ever “wrong, bad, a mistake or failure”. There will be no regrets at the end of our lifetime unless we choose to be in regret.
I am a great experimenter in life....
Soul Wizards have deep understanding of BOTH sides of the Gun Issue
Oct 15, 2019
The movie Joker by Warner Bro. was released on October 4th, 2019. There has been controversy that the movie may glorify “shooters”. This is not the intention of Warner Bro.
The release of the movie, does raise the issue of safety for both sides of the gun issue.
Our focus in this blog will be how to see both sides of gun control and the right to bear arms, through Soul Awareness.
How do you feel about the right to bear arms?
Do you feel triggered by the topic?
Are you curious about both sides of this issue?
Does it bring you peace to have a gun in your home?
Does it disturb you to know that people are bearing arms?
If this idea of having a Soul and the afterlife doesn’t make much sense to you, perhaps you can read it with an open mind. If your a Science major you can try it, as an experiment.
As Souls we know that we are eternal. There is no death....
Altar Building- for Health and Wealth
Oct 12, 2019
In todays blog, you will learn how to Create your own Altar for whatever you want to manifest in your life.
Benefits of having a “working Altar”:
- A place to focus your energy
- A Sacred Space for devotion, gratitude and prayer
- A tool for manifesting your dreams
- A Beautiful Space to uplift your Spirits
Altars have been built by our ancestors since the beginning of time. You can see it in cave walls, drawings that give us a view into the world of our ancestors, they drew images that displayed the important messages they wanted future generations to know about. The images on the wall is a wall Altar.
If you have a space where you place pictures of your loved ones, flowers and items that you treasure, you are creating an Altar.
We naturally gather images that symbolize something of sentimental value. If you have pictures of your loved ones up, you value those relationships, you want to have pictures up to...
The Wish Game
Oct 11, 2019
What is your wish for today?
In this blog, Mark and I share how we Create our day. How we manifest our Wishes to come true and how we can support you in manifesting all of your Wishes.
Every morning Mark and I ask each other:
What do you want to Create today?
Mark said:
“Yesterday, we had a cherished item appear magically. We searched high and low for this item for over a month. There is no doubt about it, pure magic.
Today, I want something big to show up, that delights me.
What delights me?
I want to dance with my wife.
My body feels really good, except my jaws, the last hold out.
I want to experience a full release in my jaws.”
After Mark expressed his wish, I thought about my own. What do I wish? I have a deep yearning within me, to resolve my feelings with my family.
I have wanted for as long as I can remember, to have a family that really sees...
