At a workshop Lynetta and I attended, one of the facilitators shared: "If you're not in relationship now, get in relationship because it's your best teacher".
When you're working on yourself, you need mirrors. We need people who can look at us from the 'outside' and see what's really going on. We might think we see the 'reality' of the world but really we are all looking out at the world through the lenses of our beliefs.
The proof? How many times have you seen someone claiming to be stuck in a situation that you could clearly see a solution to?
We may have been taught that a friend is supposed to 'support you' no matter what.
But a real friend is someone who will tell you the truth about what they see, even if you might not want to hear it.
That's a mirror.
And the best mirror of all is a soulmate who is keen to work on themselves and supports you to do your work.
There's no criticism, no making wrong. Just sharing what they see through their loving and objective eyes so you have the opportunity of another viewpoint than your own.
Do you have good mirrors in your life? We'd like to hear.
Mark and Lynetta
P.S. If you'd like to get some 'mirror support', schedule a chat with Lynetta and me. We'd love to support you.
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